JULY 2010 MAIN MADINA SHARIF MAIN AIK ADALAT (COURT) NE AIK 42 SAALA AURAT LADY DOCTER KI IS DARKHAWAST (APPEAL) KO RAD KER DIYA JIS MAIN USNE KAHA THA KE USKE FATHER AUR BROTHER USKI SHADI AIK SURGEON SE KERNE SE IS LIYE MANA KER RAHE HAIN KE WO UNKE KHANDAN KA NAHI HAI . ADALAT (COURT) NE FAISLA DIYA HAI KE USKE WALID THEEK KER RAHE HAIN AUR WO APNE KHANDAN SE BAHAR SHADI KER KE APNE FATHER KI NA-FERMANI KER RAHI HAI . SAUDI ARAB KI AURAT'EIN APNI PASAND KI SHADI MAIN IS APNE KAHNDAN AUR PARENTS AUR BROTHERS KI RUKAWAT KE KHILAF ROADS PER AA GAYEN HAIN . KITNI HI GRADUATES AUR JOBS KERTI SAUDI KHAWATEEN NE IS ADALAT (COURTS) MAIN IS FAISLE KE KHILAF DARKHAWAST (APPEAL) JAMA KERWA DI HAIN .
JULY 2010 MAIN MADINA SHARIF MAIN AIK ADALAT (COURT) NE AIK 42 SAALA AURAT LADY DOCTER KI IS DARKHAWAST (APPEAL) KO RAD KER DIYA JIS MAIN USNE KAHA THA KE USKE FATHER AUR BROTHER USKI SHADI AIK SURGEON SE KERNE SE IS LIYE MANA KER RAHE HAIN KE WO UNKE KHANDAN KA NAHI HAI . ADALAT (COURT) NE FAISLA DIYA HAI KE USKE WALID THEEK KER RAHE HAIN AUR WO APNE KHANDAN SE BAHAR SHADI KER KE APNE FATHER KI NA-FERMANI KER RAHI HAI . NATIONAL SOCIETY FOR WOMEN RIGHTS KI SUHAILA ZAIN-UL-ABDAIN NE A.F.P KO BATAYA HAI KE BAD-QISMATI SE HAMARAY SAMAJ MAIN AJEEB RIWAJ AUR TEHZEEB AAJ BHI MOJOUD HAI KE JIS MAIN 10 YA 12 SAAL KI LARKI TO SHADI KER SAKTI HAI LEKIN AIK AAQIL AUR BALIGH LARKI APNI PASAND KA HAQ ISTEMAAL NAHI KER SAKTI . AIK AUR UNIVERSITY KI GRADUATE WOMEN AMAL SALIH KA KEHNA HAI KE HUM TAMAM LARKIYAN IS MUSIBAT SE JAN CHURANA CHAHATI HAIN . SAUDI ARABIA MAIN JARI FACE BOOK PER AURATON KI PASAND KI SHADI KE HUQOOQ KI HIMAYAT KERTE HUE AMAL SALIH KA KEHNA HAI KE ISLAM SE PEHLE BETI KO PAIDA HOTE MAR DIYA JATA THA LEKIN AAJ KE IS DOUR MAIN UNKO BALIGH HONE KE BAAD MARA JA RAHA HAI . SAUDI ARAB KI RAWAYAT KE TEHET LARKI KE WALID YA USKE SAR-PARAST SHADI TAK US PER HAWI REHTE HAIN AUR UNKE WALID YA SAR-PARAST KE MERNE KE BAAD SAUDI ARAB KI ADALAT'EIN (COURTS) UNKO UNKE CHA'CHA YA KISI AUR SAR-PARAST MARD KI IJAZAT KE BEGHAIR KAHEEN AUR SHADI KERNE KI IJAZAT NAHI DETI . SAUDI ARAB MAIN ZIYADA TER LARKI KO USKE KHANDAN MAIN SHADI KERNE PER ZOOR DIYA JATA HAI AUR AYSA KERNE KE LIYE UNKE PAAS SIYASI AUR SAMAJI IKHTIYARAT MOJOUD HAIN .
NATIONAL SOCIETY FOR WOMEN RIGHTS KI SUHAILA ZAIN-UL-ABDAIN NE BATAYA KE HAD TO YE HAI KE AYSE BAAP JO KE KHUD KAHNDAN SE BAHAR SHADI KERTA HAI LEKIN APNI BETI KO KHANDAN SE BAHAR SHADI NAHI KERNE DETA . KABHI KABHI AYSA BHI HOTA HAI KE LARKI KE BACHPAN KE MANGETER (FIANCE) YA UNKE COUSINS SE CHOTI CHOTI BAATON PER SHADI SE ROK DIYA JATA JABKE LARKIYAN UNKO PASAND BHI KERTI HAIN .
AIK AURAT MAHA JISKO BHI YAHI MASLA DAR-PESH HAI NE A.F.P KO BATAYA HAI KE JAB WOH 26 SAAL KI THI USNE APNE KHANDAN KE AIK LARKE SE USKI NA-AHLI KI WAJAH SE US SE SHADI KERNE SE INKAR KER DIYA THA TO USKE KHANDAN WALON NE KHANDAN SE BAHAR AIK RISHTA DOHNDA LEKIN USKE BHAI AUR WALID NE WO RISHTA THUKRA DIYA . AUR MAIN AB JABKE 38 SAAL KI HO CHUKI HOON TO WO MUJHAY AIK KAROBARI AADMI SE SHADI KERNE KE LIYE ZOOR DE RAHE HAIN .
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